Monday, December 27, 2010
Sunday, December 26, 2010
Christmas Carols, Songs of Praise
Hi Darlings!
I think this past week was my turn to post, but preparing for Christmas Eve and Christmas made me lose track of my turn. But I have found something. The talk comes from Elder Merrill J. Bateman, found in the 2001 Ensign, entitled "The Power of Hymns."
http://lds.org/ensign/2001/07/the-power-of-hymns?lang=eng
For me, it wouldn't be Christmas without the festive carols, and sacred hymns of praise and rejoicing. My family comes from a Catholic background; my mother's family from South America and Spain, and my Dad's family from Sicily. For the people of these nationalities, Christmas Eve is almost the more important and sacred day of the two.
As a cultural result, for most all my life, Christmas Eve has been my favorite holiday. We gather as a family at my uncle's house, where we have Argentine asado (bbq) for dinner. Then we talk and have games, and end the night with an hour or so of singing. We start with the fun carols like Jingle Bells and Rudolph, then slowly make our way to the hymns like Joy to the World and Silent Night. We even added a hymn of our own: Bless Us All from the Muppet Christmas Carol. The words are prayer asking for peace and love from our Father in Heaven, and expressing gratitude for the blessing of family.
As Elder Bateman explains, testimony can be shared, and learning can happen through these hymns. The hymns really are musical forms of testimony and prayers. Giving the example of Peter singing a Psalm to the Sanhedrin so that Doctrine might be taught and shared, we learn that singing a hymn carries a sacred responsibility with it. Hymns of praise nourish not just those who hear and feel its message, but it strengthens those who sing/play the music.
I know that my testimony of the Savior increases every Christmas Eve, especially during the singing of the carols. As I look into the faces of each of my family members, and friends present, the Spirit testifies that this is the purpose of His Gospel, and the reason why He came: so that we might all have the opportunity to return to Him and be united with those for whom we love and care so much.
He truly is the Prince of Peace and our Redeemer. He came and He lives! As the beloved hymn "Hark the Herald Angels Sing" so aptly teaches and testifies, Jesus Christ is the reason for our hope and joy during the Season, and always:
Light and life to all He brings
http://lds.org/topic/christmas/christmas-resources.html#/music
I think this past week was my turn to post, but preparing for Christmas Eve and Christmas made me lose track of my turn. But I have found something. The talk comes from Elder Merrill J. Bateman, found in the 2001 Ensign, entitled "The Power of Hymns."
http://lds.org/ensign/2001/07/the-power-of-hymns?lang=eng
For me, it wouldn't be Christmas without the festive carols, and sacred hymns of praise and rejoicing. My family comes from a Catholic background; my mother's family from South America and Spain, and my Dad's family from Sicily. For the people of these nationalities, Christmas Eve is almost the more important and sacred day of the two.
As a cultural result, for most all my life, Christmas Eve has been my favorite holiday. We gather as a family at my uncle's house, where we have Argentine asado (bbq) for dinner. Then we talk and have games, and end the night with an hour or so of singing. We start with the fun carols like Jingle Bells and Rudolph, then slowly make our way to the hymns like Joy to the World and Silent Night. We even added a hymn of our own: Bless Us All from the Muppet Christmas Carol. The words are prayer asking for peace and love from our Father in Heaven, and expressing gratitude for the blessing of family.
As Elder Bateman explains, testimony can be shared, and learning can happen through these hymns. The hymns really are musical forms of testimony and prayers. Giving the example of Peter singing a Psalm to the Sanhedrin so that Doctrine might be taught and shared, we learn that singing a hymn carries a sacred responsibility with it. Hymns of praise nourish not just those who hear and feel its message, but it strengthens those who sing/play the music.
I know that my testimony of the Savior increases every Christmas Eve, especially during the singing of the carols. As I look into the faces of each of my family members, and friends present, the Spirit testifies that this is the purpose of His Gospel, and the reason why He came: so that we might all have the opportunity to return to Him and be united with those for whom we love and care so much.
He truly is the Prince of Peace and our Redeemer. He came and He lives! As the beloved hymn "Hark the Herald Angels Sing" so aptly teaches and testifies, Jesus Christ is the reason for our hope and joy during the Season, and always:
Light and life to all He brings
Ris'n with healing in His wings
Mild He lays His glory by
Born that man no more may die
Born to raise the sons of earth
Born to give them second birth
Merry Christmas! Below is the LDS page with MP3 files to some hymns which mean so much to me this season. May the Spirit bare witness to you of Christ's divinity through the music and words.
http://lds.org/topic/christmas/christmas-resources.html#/music
Sunday, December 12, 2010
Following the doctrine of Christ
I know this isn't Christmas-y...but it is really. The article is, "Rest Unto Your Souls" by Elder Per G. Malm, from the October 2010 Conference issue. It's not a very long one, but the message was powerful. Follow Christ and have peace.
http://lds.org/general-conference/2010/10/rest-unto-your-souls?lang=eng
I love how he starts by talking about a tree...because trees are so symbolic. I immediately think of the tree of life, the tree in the garden of Eden, how we need to be trees with deep roots, planted on gospel sod. The tree in the garden of Gethsemane, where Christ spent the night, suffering to atone for our sins. To me Christmas is just as much about Christ's Atonement, death, and resurrection as it is about his birth. Ultimately, that's why they waited for the Messiah, the Savior, He came to set us free, to offer us everlasting life and redemption from our sins.
Elder Malm says, "It is through the healing Atonement of Jesus Christ that we may have the strength to stand tall and strong and to have our souls be filled--with light, understanding, joy, and love. His invitation is extended to, 'all to come unto him and partake of his goodness; and he denieth none that come unto him' (2 Nephi 26:33)"
"To find rest unto our souls includes peace of mind and heart, which is the result of learning and following the doctrine of Christ, and becoming Christ's extended hands in serving and helping others...We can have lasting inner peace; we can enter into the rest of the Lord. Only if we turn away from light and truth will a hollow feeling of emptiness, like the tree's occupy the innermost chambers of our souls, and we even might attempt to fill that emptiness with things of no lasting value."
I think that statement is an extension of all those talks I've heard about choosing the essential over the good...you know, there are so many good thing we can fill ourselves with. Knowledge, I love self help books, and programs...and working out, that's good too, and having friends, and scrapbooking and decorating our houses, and taking our kids to dance class, and making cookies for the neighbors and sending Christmas cards out...and all these things that keep us so busy, so filled up....but with what? Those are all good in their measure...but they are not the things that give us peace of mind and heart... Learning and following the doctrine of Christ and serving in his stead.... I don't know about you all, but very often...the prayer in the morning is rushed...if it's not in the car...the scripture study gets moved down the list. All so I can keep up with all the things I've filled my life with that keep me busy...and very often I don't feel that peace and wonder when I will ever, ever, ever get a rest.
From Matthew 11:28-29, "Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly of heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls"
We get so confused here in this earthly life about what things will bring us peace...how often have I complained about how heavy my yoke is...mine, the one I've created...maybe because I am not lowly of heart...I want to be important sometimes, and I want other people to think well of me....that I do worthy things with my time and am doing a good job carrying my yoke....and you know what...I feel no peace, just that I am never good enough, always got to do more, got to be more, no rest.
Elder Malm says, "In view of our existence as spirit children before we came to earth and immortality in the life hereafter, this earth life is indeed but a very short moment. It is, however, a day of probation, but it is also a day of opportunities when we choose to follow the invitation to not waste the days of our probation. The thoughts that we dwell on inside our minds, the feelings we foster inside our hearts, and the actions we choose to take will all have a determining impact on our lives, both here and in the hereafter. A helpful habit is to lift our vision daily in order to maintain an eternal perspective of the things we plan and do, especially if we detect a tendency to wait until a future tomorrow to do what we know we should pursue while we have our present today."
"What we say, how we act, and how we choose to react will influence not only ourselves but also those around us. We can build up, or we can tear down. When we learn to handle the small and simple daily things in a wise and inspired way, the result is a positive influence that will solidify harmony in our souls and build up and strengthen those around us."
We have such power as women, as mothers, wives, sisters, daughters, educators, and caregivers...we can make a huge difference in the lives of all those we come into contact with, if we are filled with that peace, hope and rest that comes only through Jesus Christ.
Elder Malm says, "He has the power to heal and to strengthen the soul. He is Jesus Christ..."
"Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid" John 14:27
Merry Christmas fellow divas, with love.
http://lds.org/general-conference/2010/10/rest-unto-your-souls?lang=eng
I love how he starts by talking about a tree...because trees are so symbolic. I immediately think of the tree of life, the tree in the garden of Eden, how we need to be trees with deep roots, planted on gospel sod. The tree in the garden of Gethsemane, where Christ spent the night, suffering to atone for our sins. To me Christmas is just as much about Christ's Atonement, death, and resurrection as it is about his birth. Ultimately, that's why they waited for the Messiah, the Savior, He came to set us free, to offer us everlasting life and redemption from our sins.
Elder Malm says, "It is through the healing Atonement of Jesus Christ that we may have the strength to stand tall and strong and to have our souls be filled--with light, understanding, joy, and love. His invitation is extended to, 'all to come unto him and partake of his goodness; and he denieth none that come unto him' (2 Nephi 26:33)"
"To find rest unto our souls includes peace of mind and heart, which is the result of learning and following the doctrine of Christ, and becoming Christ's extended hands in serving and helping others...We can have lasting inner peace; we can enter into the rest of the Lord. Only if we turn away from light and truth will a hollow feeling of emptiness, like the tree's occupy the innermost chambers of our souls, and we even might attempt to fill that emptiness with things of no lasting value."
I think that statement is an extension of all those talks I've heard about choosing the essential over the good...you know, there are so many good thing we can fill ourselves with. Knowledge, I love self help books, and programs...and working out, that's good too, and having friends, and scrapbooking and decorating our houses, and taking our kids to dance class, and making cookies for the neighbors and sending Christmas cards out...and all these things that keep us so busy, so filled up....but with what? Those are all good in their measure...but they are not the things that give us peace of mind and heart... Learning and following the doctrine of Christ and serving in his stead.... I don't know about you all, but very often...the prayer in the morning is rushed...if it's not in the car...the scripture study gets moved down the list. All so I can keep up with all the things I've filled my life with that keep me busy...and very often I don't feel that peace and wonder when I will ever, ever, ever get a rest.
From Matthew 11:28-29, "Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly of heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls"
We get so confused here in this earthly life about what things will bring us peace...how often have I complained about how heavy my yoke is...mine, the one I've created...maybe because I am not lowly of heart...I want to be important sometimes, and I want other people to think well of me....that I do worthy things with my time and am doing a good job carrying my yoke....and you know what...I feel no peace, just that I am never good enough, always got to do more, got to be more, no rest.
Elder Malm says, "In view of our existence as spirit children before we came to earth and immortality in the life hereafter, this earth life is indeed but a very short moment. It is, however, a day of probation, but it is also a day of opportunities when we choose to follow the invitation to not waste the days of our probation. The thoughts that we dwell on inside our minds, the feelings we foster inside our hearts, and the actions we choose to take will all have a determining impact on our lives, both here and in the hereafter. A helpful habit is to lift our vision daily in order to maintain an eternal perspective of the things we plan and do, especially if we detect a tendency to wait until a future tomorrow to do what we know we should pursue while we have our present today."
"What we say, how we act, and how we choose to react will influence not only ourselves but also those around us. We can build up, or we can tear down. When we learn to handle the small and simple daily things in a wise and inspired way, the result is a positive influence that will solidify harmony in our souls and build up and strengthen those around us."
We have such power as women, as mothers, wives, sisters, daughters, educators, and caregivers...we can make a huge difference in the lives of all those we come into contact with, if we are filled with that peace, hope and rest that comes only through Jesus Christ.
Elder Malm says, "He has the power to heal and to strengthen the soul. He is Jesus Christ..."
"Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid" John 14:27
Merry Christmas fellow divas, with love.
Wednesday, December 1, 2010
Gifts of the Season
This is a long article this week, but a great way to usher in December: http://lds.org/general-conference/1993/04/gifts?lang=eng&format=conference
From President Monson, it'a all about the gifts of the season. We celebrate, first and foremost, the gift of life over spiritual and physical death that the Christ child brought to each of us as he descended from glory to earth. His birth, life and death are the ultimate gifts. But when we break it down into 4 distinct thoughts, we can better understand the applications to our lives.
1. The gift of birth
2. The gift of peace
3. The gift of love
4. The gift of life eternal.jpg)
With the pregnancy and birth of each of my 4 children, I was reminded again and again of the miraculous power of procreation. It is amazing to know that a little soul and body develop inside. There is glimpses of divine in that power. The power of creation. And because I struggled to conceive with 1 child, I appreciate the gift of birth better. Isaiah talks about the condescension of God in chapter 9: For unto us a a) child is b) born, unto us a c)son is given: and the d)government shall be upon his shoulder: and his name shall be called Wonderful, e)Counsellor, The f) mighty gGod, The h) everlasting Father, The Prince of i)peace. There is a loaded statement: a child is innocent, born into earthy clay, given freely by parents. This child is so powerful, that the government of eternity shall be his responsibility, a ruler. Then each name describes a different facet of this child, the babe born in Bethlehem. I challenge you to study each of these names this week. Each is unique. How does it add to your understanding of the Son of God? In my studies, I have gained greater insight to the gift of peace and love that the Christ Child brings to me personally and to the whole wholly. He bring the desired peace we all seek in turmoil and trouble, calming the storm just like he did for His disciples upon the Dead Sea. It was love that compelled Him to condescend to earth and below us all. It is that love that can bouy us up, comfort and protect us as we place our burdens upon his cross. It is only through Him that we can reconcile our shortcomings to gain eternal life.
From President Monson, it'a all about the gifts of the season. We celebrate, first and foremost, the gift of life over spiritual and physical death that the Christ child brought to each of us as he descended from glory to earth. His birth, life and death are the ultimate gifts. But when we break it down into 4 distinct thoughts, we can better understand the applications to our lives.
1. The gift of birth
2. The gift of peace
3. The gift of love
4. The gift of life eternal
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With the pregnancy and birth of each of my 4 children, I was reminded again and again of the miraculous power of procreation. It is amazing to know that a little soul and body develop inside. There is glimpses of divine in that power. The power of creation. And because I struggled to conceive with 1 child, I appreciate the gift of birth better. Isaiah talks about the condescension of God in chapter 9: For unto us a a) child is b) born, unto us a c)son is given: and the d)government shall be upon his shoulder: and his name shall be called Wonderful, e)Counsellor, The f) mighty gGod, The h) everlasting Father, The Prince of i)peace. There is a loaded statement: a child is innocent, born into earthy clay, given freely by parents. This child is so powerful, that the government of eternity shall be his responsibility, a ruler. Then each name describes a different facet of this child, the babe born in Bethlehem. I challenge you to study each of these names this week. Each is unique. How does it add to your understanding of the Son of God? In my studies, I have gained greater insight to the gift of peace and love that the Christ Child brings to me personally and to the whole wholly. He bring the desired peace we all seek in turmoil and trouble, calming the storm just like he did for His disciples upon the Dead Sea. It was love that compelled Him to condescend to earth and below us all. It is that love that can bouy us up, comfort and protect us as we place our burdens upon his cross. It is only through Him that we can reconcile our shortcomings to gain eternal life.
Pres Monson gave some great stories, as always, with each of these gifts. It is important to understand and remember these gifts from the Lord during Christmas. More importantly: What will you give the Christ child this Christmas? Life is God's gift to man. What we do with that life is our gift to God. A favorite family tradition during Christmas is to fill the manger with straws of kindness to each other through December. Then, on Christmas Eve to place the Christ child in the full manger and give him gifts. These are wrapped gifts thoughtfully given. Sometimes, its been a piano book to work on a talent of music. Other times its been the Book of Mormon as a promise to read it that year. What will you give the Christ child?
Merry Christmas!
Sarena
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
Trust and Do
Hi Lovelies!
Knowing that Thursday is Thanksgiving, all last week I was set on the idea that I would post President Monson's most recent conference talk on gratitude, entitled The Divine Gift of Gratitude. It is an amazing, humble, beautiful talk which reminds us of all the blessings the Lord has provided us, and we truly ought to be a thankful people.
However, this morning I woke up feeling that another talk is needed. Being the ridiculous Type A that I am, I panicked because my plan was thrown off. I opened up my November Ensign and began searching for the right article, with a prayer in my heart that I could recognize it.
And I did! It's President Henry B. Eyring's "Trust in God, Then Go and Do."
How did I miss this amazing message when he declared it from the pulpit?! It is so full of strength, and hope, and ability.
I love that he quoted from 1Nephi 3:7. It's the scripture we all know, and yet this time it spoke to me with new insight. I am sure I'm the only one, but we've been struggling to have consistent family scripture study in our home lately. There are certain blessings that I want to have happen, and I know they will be a direct result from studying the scriptures, but how to make it happen? We are both soooo busy, and we are soooo tired at the end of the day!
Well, I am sure Nephi was busy and tired from fleeing Jerusalem and the constant temper of his brothers, and yet he managed to do what the Lord commanded. It's comforting, no? The Lord "shall [always] prepare a way for them that they may accomplish the thing which he commandeth them."
It's all about trust. Trust that my efforts, even if they are teeny tiny, will be boosted by the Lord. Trust that as I exercise my faith, the blessings my family needs will be delivered. Trust that as I go and do what he commands, even if it seems impossible, he'll help me find ways and opportunities to make things happen.
Sometimes it might take creativity, or patience, or even sacrifice, but the rewards of going, doing, and keeping his commandments will be worth it. That's a promise I just have to trust in :)
Much love, and enjoy your Thanksgiving!
FYI - I don't think the November 2010 Ensign articles are up on the LDS site yet, as I have been searching for President Eyring's talk. However, click here for the search page which has a plethora of delightful articles discussing trust and faith in the Lord. Perhaps one will catch your attention, and will speak to you as Elder Eyring's words spoke to me.
Knowing that Thursday is Thanksgiving, all last week I was set on the idea that I would post President Monson's most recent conference talk on gratitude, entitled The Divine Gift of Gratitude. It is an amazing, humble, beautiful talk which reminds us of all the blessings the Lord has provided us, and we truly ought to be a thankful people.
However, this morning I woke up feeling that another talk is needed. Being the ridiculous Type A that I am, I panicked because my plan was thrown off. I opened up my November Ensign and began searching for the right article, with a prayer in my heart that I could recognize it.
And I did! It's President Henry B. Eyring's "Trust in God, Then Go and Do."
How did I miss this amazing message when he declared it from the pulpit?! It is so full of strength, and hope, and ability.
I love that he quoted from 1Nephi 3:7. It's the scripture we all know, and yet this time it spoke to me with new insight. I am sure I'm the only one, but we've been struggling to have consistent family scripture study in our home lately. There are certain blessings that I want to have happen, and I know they will be a direct result from studying the scriptures, but how to make it happen? We are both soooo busy, and we are soooo tired at the end of the day!
Well, I am sure Nephi was busy and tired from fleeing Jerusalem and the constant temper of his brothers, and yet he managed to do what the Lord commanded. It's comforting, no? The Lord "shall [always] prepare a way for them that they may accomplish the thing which he commandeth them."
It's all about trust. Trust that my efforts, even if they are teeny tiny, will be boosted by the Lord. Trust that as I exercise my faith, the blessings my family needs will be delivered. Trust that as I go and do what he commands, even if it seems impossible, he'll help me find ways and opportunities to make things happen.
Sometimes it might take creativity, or patience, or even sacrifice, but the rewards of going, doing, and keeping his commandments will be worth it. That's a promise I just have to trust in :)
Much love, and enjoy your Thanksgiving!
FYI - I don't think the November 2010 Ensign articles are up on the LDS site yet, as I have been searching for President Eyring's talk. However, click here for the search page which has a plethora of delightful articles discussing trust and faith in the Lord. Perhaps one will catch your attention, and will speak to you as Elder Eyring's words spoke to me.
Sunday, November 21, 2010
A Hymn of Thanksgiving
With Thanksgiving this Thursday, I have been drawn to hymns which express my gratitude for the multitude of blessings the Lord abundantly pours upon me. May you feel His love through this hymn. I'll be posting something Tuesday, but couldn't help but share this today.
Please click here to enjoy Come Thou Font of Every Blessing, a hymn of humility and gratitude all wrapped into one.
Please click here to enjoy Come Thou Font of Every Blessing, a hymn of humility and gratitude all wrapped into one.
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
Repent...That I May Heal You
Greetings friends,
I found this talk in the November 2009 Ensign by Elder Neil L. Anderson while preparing to teach about repentance for Relief Society.
It came as a mini miracle (God's way of being anonymous...). I admit it, the topic of repentance is hard for me. I suffer from the "good girl syndrome". I always want to do choose the right, be perfect. I viewed many aspects of repentance as a spotlight that highlighted my flaws, my giant mistakes, my unworthiness. How mistaken was I?
The
text beneath the title of this talk is "the invitation to repent is rarely a voice of chastisement but rather a loving appeal to turn around and to "re-turn" toward God". What a relief! I sin and and turn away from the Lord, ashamed but I have been missing the point! The Lord uses our weakness to call us to repentance; to make us stronger. He uses it to heal us. How I need to be healed again and again.
I found this talk in the November 2009 Ensign by Elder Neil L. Anderson while preparing to teach about repentance for Relief Society.
It came as a mini miracle (God's way of being anonymous...). I admit it, the topic of repentance is hard for me. I suffer from the "good girl syndrome". I always want to do choose the right, be perfect. I viewed many aspects of repentance as a spotlight that highlighted my flaws, my giant mistakes, my unworthiness. How mistaken was I?
The
text beneath the title of this talk is "the invitation to repent is rarely a voice of chastisement but rather a loving appeal to turn around and to "re-turn" toward God". What a relief! I sin and and turn away from the Lord, ashamed but I have been missing the point! The Lord uses our weakness to call us to repentance; to make us stronger. He uses it to heal us. How I need to be healed again and again.Elder Andersen quotes the scriptures-"Behold [my arms] of mercy [are] extended towards you, and whosoever will come, him will I receive; and blessed are those who come unto me." Elder Andersen reminds us that "for most, repentance is more a journey than a one-time event." That's exactly how I have viewed my life especially the last few years. He also reminds us that "repentance not only changes us, but it also blesses our families and those we love". What a beautiful thought.
I loved this talk. I humbly acknowledge the Lord reaching out to me; reminding me that He knows me, that He wants me to come back to Him and there is nothing that has been so wrong in my life that I can't return to Him. I have been so inspired by this talk, by the Spirit, by the healing that has already come to me by "re-turning" to my Heavenly Father.
Hugs, my sweet sisters. I hope you find "healing in His wings" (2Nephi something...).
Saturday, November 13, 2010
"Often the deep valleys of our present will be understood only by looking back on them from the mountains of our future experiences. Often we cannot see the Lord's hand in our lives until long after trials have passed. Often the most difficult times in our lives are essential building blocks that form the foundation of our character and pave the way to future opportunity, understanding and happinness."
-Elder Uchtdorff
Tuesday, November 2, 2010
keep moving, keep serving, and keep reaching out
Hello ladies! Firstly let me apologize for the late post, but I couldn't decide which article to use and never made the time. This is the article I needed to read, and I need to re-read it about once a week, this spoke directly to me, The title of the talk is There Is Purpose in Life by President Spencer W. Kimball
http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&locale=0&sourceId=995146581c79b010VgnVCM1000004d82620a____&vgnextoid=024644f8f206c010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD
This talk is a little long but he says so many things I needed to hear. I love what he says about service, I mean we've all heard it about a million times, that if we lose ourselves in service, that is how we find ourselves. He says though, that when we don't care about God or man, then no amount of training or technique will help us very much. I think this is an important point, I love self help books and "programs", from organization to weight loss, there are all sorts of experts to offer methods and programs, but if we don't care about God or our fellow man, they won't help us....that was an aha for me.
I also loved this part...well the whole thing...but especially the part at the end, when he says straight up that if you aren't getting what you want, change something. Do more, do better, follow the commandments, go to work. OH....that would be my problem, he doesn't say anywhere to whine, wallow in self pity, or become bitter and resentful...hmmmm, I will have to think about this part some more.
http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&locale=0&sourceId=995146581c79b010VgnVCM1000004d82620a____&vgnextoid=024644f8f206c010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD
This talk is a little long but he says so many things I needed to hear. I love what he says about service, I mean we've all heard it about a million times, that if we lose ourselves in service, that is how we find ourselves. He says though, that when we don't care about God or man, then no amount of training or technique will help us very much. I think this is an important point, I love self help books and "programs", from organization to weight loss, there are all sorts of experts to offer methods and programs, but if we don't care about God or our fellow man, they won't help us....that was an aha for me.
I also loved this part...well the whole thing...but especially the part at the end, when he says straight up that if you aren't getting what you want, change something. Do more, do better, follow the commandments, go to work. OH....that would be my problem, he doesn't say anywhere to whine, wallow in self pity, or become bitter and resentful...hmmmm, I will have to think about this part some more.
Wednesday, October 20, 2010
On Giving and Getting
Here's the devotional for this week: http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&locale=0&sourceId=4e1d023382b9b010VgnVCM1000004d82620a____&vgnextoid=024644f8f206c010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD
This is an incredible article, summizing life really. I am using this tonight for the YW, trying to teach them to focus, to not look beyond the mark. But htis applies to me too! And too my kids.
****It is difficult to sit in the sun on a street corner when all the world is bent on seeking shade. But as with many other things, it is where you sit that counts—or where you stand—or what you stand for. And with some things there is nothing more important to do than to pay the price; even though it entails inconvenience or sacrifice.
Everything worthwhile comes at a price. I've always wanted to udnerstand the words of Isaiah and thought it would just "come to me" as my testimony grew stronger. I was wrong. We were commanded by Christ to search the words of Isiah for our profit and understanding, to lift our hearts because he wrote of these last days. It has taken me immense study to begin to understand Isaiah. Therefore, I appreciate the knowledge that I am gaining more, the wisdom and my testimony has grown. I tried to explain a concept to another sister the other day. Because she had not studied, she did not understand no matter the tactics, analogy, definitions I used. We have to pay the price to grow.
Just like King David who refused a free offering, "Nay; but I will surely buy it of thee at a price: neither will I offer burnt offerings unto the Lord my God of that which doth cost me nothing."
Why was David concerned about personally paying for the offering the prophet commanded him to make? Was it because he knew there is always a cost when real sacrifice is made? Only after that real sacrifice can we grow in understanding, wisdom and knowledge.
I loved this part: After Adam’s transgression, the Lord told him that the ground would be cursed for his sake (Moses 4:23). It is interesting to me that one definition of the word sake is benefit. Thus, cursed was to be the ground for Adam’s benefit. And by the sweat of his brow was he to earn his bread (Moses 4:25). Work, then, was not to be a curse, and earning things was to be a benefit.
We are here on earth to work, to excercise that agency. Are we going to squander it in front of the tv each night? or am I going to get a few minutes extra sleep? or should I prepare and wake up early to give my kids their daily devotional, to help them put on their armor of God? The choice is obvious when I look at it like this! Now, I just need to remember it. And when I teach my kids, remember what Elder Ballard said, "Let me know when you find the answer." Let them figure it out. They need to work for the answers too, so they will understand and grow. I so want to give them the answers, just like I'm sure our Father in Heaven wants to give us. But he didn't and I can't. Children wouldn't have to work that way. Work and sacrifice is required to grow.
I need to remember that myself, especially now when I am feeling overwhelmed, more overwhelmed than I've been in my entire life. I'm not sure how I will accomplish all that I need too. Sometimes, I just want to curl up into a ball, or spend all day in bed reading (with chocolate of course, something I have never done but I'll keep dreaming)... Remember, work is for our benefit.
Have a great week working ladies! And may God bless your efforts!
This is an incredible article, summizing life really. I am using this tonight for the YW, trying to teach them to focus, to not look beyond the mark. But htis applies to me too! And too my kids.
****It is difficult to sit in the sun on a street corner when all the world is bent on seeking shade. But as with many other things, it is where you sit that counts—or where you stand—or what you stand for. And with some things there is nothing more important to do than to pay the price; even though it entails inconvenience or sacrifice.
Everything worthwhile comes at a price. I've always wanted to udnerstand the words of Isaiah and thought it would just "come to me" as my testimony grew stronger. I was wrong. We were commanded by Christ to search the words of Isiah for our profit and understanding, to lift our hearts because he wrote of these last days. It has taken me immense study to begin to understand Isaiah. Therefore, I appreciate the knowledge that I am gaining more, the wisdom and my testimony has grown. I tried to explain a concept to another sister the other day. Because she had not studied, she did not understand no matter the tactics, analogy, definitions I used. We have to pay the price to grow.
Just like King David who refused a free offering, "Nay; but I will surely buy it of thee at a price: neither will I offer burnt offerings unto the Lord my God of that which doth cost me nothing."
Why was David concerned about personally paying for the offering the prophet commanded him to make? Was it because he knew there is always a cost when real sacrifice is made? Only after that real sacrifice can we grow in understanding, wisdom and knowledge.
I loved this part: After Adam’s transgression, the Lord told him that the ground would be cursed for his sake (Moses 4:23). It is interesting to me that one definition of the word sake is benefit. Thus, cursed was to be the ground for Adam’s benefit. And by the sweat of his brow was he to earn his bread (Moses 4:25). Work, then, was not to be a curse, and earning things was to be a benefit.
We are here on earth to work, to excercise that agency. Are we going to squander it in front of the tv each night? or am I going to get a few minutes extra sleep? or should I prepare and wake up early to give my kids their daily devotional, to help them put on their armor of God? The choice is obvious when I look at it like this! Now, I just need to remember it. And when I teach my kids, remember what Elder Ballard said, "Let me know when you find the answer." Let them figure it out. They need to work for the answers too, so they will understand and grow. I so want to give them the answers, just like I'm sure our Father in Heaven wants to give us. But he didn't and I can't. Children wouldn't have to work that way. Work and sacrifice is required to grow.
I need to remember that myself, especially now when I am feeling overwhelmed, more overwhelmed than I've been in my entire life. I'm not sure how I will accomplish all that I need too. Sometimes, I just want to curl up into a ball, or spend all day in bed reading (with chocolate of course, something I have never done but I'll keep dreaming)... Remember, work is for our benefit.
Have a great week working ladies! And may God bless your efforts!
Monday, October 18, 2010
Tender Mercies
Hi lovelies!
Okay, so I know I am posting out of turn, but I just wanted to share my complete joy and gratitude. I LOVE the autumn. The colors, the crisp air, the bright sky...This past general conference President Monson gave a beautiful talk all about gratitude. Indeed, we have much to be grateful for. At the very minimum, we are alive and have friends who care for us, and a Heavenly Father who loves us. What could be better?
I know this isn't Church approved, (so forgive me), but I thought I'd share this song by Macy Gray that I've absolutely been adoring since June. It gets me moving, and gets me smiling. It embodies my life philosophy, and captures a sense of gratitude that I hope to project every day. Check it out!
Article: The Divine Gift of Gratitude, http://lds.org/conference/talk/display/0,5232,23-1-1298-27,00.html
My favorite line? "When you don't know what to do, don't know if you'll make it through/ Remember God, He's given you beauty in the world."
Okay, so I know I am posting out of turn, but I just wanted to share my complete joy and gratitude. I LOVE the autumn. The colors, the crisp air, the bright sky...This past general conference President Monson gave a beautiful talk all about gratitude. Indeed, we have much to be grateful for. At the very minimum, we are alive and have friends who care for us, and a Heavenly Father who loves us. What could be better?
I know this isn't Church approved, (so forgive me), but I thought I'd share this song by Macy Gray that I've absolutely been adoring since June. It gets me moving, and gets me smiling. It embodies my life philosophy, and captures a sense of gratitude that I hope to project every day. Check it out!
Article: The Divine Gift of Gratitude, http://lds.org/conference/talk/display/0,5232,23-1-1298-27,00.html
My favorite line? "When you don't know what to do, don't know if you'll make it through/ Remember God, He's given you beauty in the world."
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
Claim the Exceeding Great and Precious Promises
Here's the link-of-the-week, Claim the Exceeding Great and Precious Promises by Elder Spencer J. Condie of the Seventy:
http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&locale=0&sourceId=d7841b3e50cf5110VgnVCM100000176f620a____&vgnextoid=f318118dd536c010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD
This one really spoke to my heart, and I knew that Elder Condie's words were exactly what my thoughts and feelings were encircling ever since it was announced that Connecticut would still be receiving a temple this past General Conference weekend.
I love what Elder Condie has said about seeing the promises afar off. "Important components of faith are patience, long-suffering, and enduring to the end." The examples he gave of Sarah and Abraham, Isaac and Rebekah, etc... are wonderful examples to emulate, and an assurance that everything works on the Lord's time.
Note that I say the word "still" in reference to the CT temple. To me, it is an example of seeing the promise afar off. As soon as it was announced, the first thing to cross my mind was, "The Lord has kept his promise." I remember being 12 years old when it was announced the first time around, and all the excitement and joy that was felt in the Stake. For various reasons, the months dragged and dragged, with lots of opposition, until, in the wisdom of the Lord, the shift was focused to Boston. I remember a touch of disappointment, but in the end, overall happiness because at least the temple would be only two hours away, instead of the 8 it normally took to get to D.C.
We, as Saints in CT, were grateful for that blessing, and I think we felt that this was how it was all meant to be, and that was that. We had peace and joy, knowing a temple would be in New England.
But the Lord never makes a mistake. And He remembers what He promises. And this is where my real testimony has grown. It has been 16 years since it was announced the first time, but it is coming to pass. And this brings me hope. Without getting too personal, it reminds me of the very intimate and individual promises the Lord has made me via my Patriarchal Blessing, and subsequent blessings. I have yet to see some of things happen, but it doesn't mean that what He has promised won't come to pass.
Here's where Elder Condie's talk really gets me: "But with the passage of time, we encounter four of the most beautiful words in holy writ: 'And God remembered Rachel' (Genesis 30:22)."
And God remembered CT. And He remembers me.
http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&locale=0&sourceId=d7841b3e50cf5110VgnVCM100000176f620a____&vgnextoid=f318118dd536c010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD
This one really spoke to my heart, and I knew that Elder Condie's words were exactly what my thoughts and feelings were encircling ever since it was announced that Connecticut would still be receiving a temple this past General Conference weekend.
I love what Elder Condie has said about seeing the promises afar off. "Important components of faith are patience, long-suffering, and enduring to the end." The examples he gave of Sarah and Abraham, Isaac and Rebekah, etc... are wonderful examples to emulate, and an assurance that everything works on the Lord's time.
Note that I say the word "still" in reference to the CT temple. To me, it is an example of seeing the promise afar off. As soon as it was announced, the first thing to cross my mind was, "The Lord has kept his promise." I remember being 12 years old when it was announced the first time around, and all the excitement and joy that was felt in the Stake. For various reasons, the months dragged and dragged, with lots of opposition, until, in the wisdom of the Lord, the shift was focused to Boston. I remember a touch of disappointment, but in the end, overall happiness because at least the temple would be only two hours away, instead of the 8 it normally took to get to D.C.
We, as Saints in CT, were grateful for that blessing, and I think we felt that this was how it was all meant to be, and that was that. We had peace and joy, knowing a temple would be in New England.
But the Lord never makes a mistake. And He remembers what He promises. And this is where my real testimony has grown. It has been 16 years since it was announced the first time, but it is coming to pass. And this brings me hope. Without getting too personal, it reminds me of the very intimate and individual promises the Lord has made me via my Patriarchal Blessing, and subsequent blessings. I have yet to see some of things happen, but it doesn't mean that what He has promised won't come to pass.
Here's where Elder Condie's talk really gets me: "But with the passage of time, we encounter four of the most beautiful words in holy writ: 'And God remembered Rachel' (Genesis 30:22)."
And God remembered CT. And He remembers me.
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Broken Things to Mend
Hi ladies,
Here's my article, Broken Things to Mend by Elder Jeffrey R. Holland:
http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&locale=0&sourceId=2e89e2270ed6c010VgnVCM1000004d82620a____&vgnextoid=2354fccf2b7db010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD
I was struck by this article because of the title, "broken things to mend". I was thinking about the image of a broken bone being mended or casted. When a bone is broken, we take such good care of it. The cast is a customized fit to help it heal. It's often a long process and sometimes requires therapy after but most broken bones are healed in a matter of weeks.
I think of my life and my spirit over the last few years. It felt broken, disconnected from Heavenly Father. I made the choice to see the Master Physician and He diagnosed me, examined me, sent nurses to be with me so I wasn't alone in the 'x-ray room' and then He casted me until I was healed. I know I kind of took the analogy a little far but I really think it works.
Elder Holland uses Christ's phrase "come unto me" repeatedly. I struggled just as the Apostles because I was so afraid. I love how Elder Holland teaches us about how to come unto Christ. What a powerful lesson I am just really coming to learn :
"reliance upon the merciful nature of God is at the very center of the gospel Christ taught. I testify that the Savior’s Atonement lifts from us not only the burden of our sins but also the burden of our disappointments and sorrows, our heartaches and our despair. 14 From the beginning, trust in such help was to give us both a reason and a way to improve, an incentive to lay down our burdens and take up our salvation. There can and will be plenty of difficulties in life. Nevertheless, the soul that comes unto Christ, who knows His voice and strives to do as He did, finds a strength, as the hymn says, “beyond [his] own.” 15 The Savior reminds us that He has “graven [us] upon the palms of [His] hands.” 16 Considering the incomprehensible cost of the Crucifixion and Atonement, I promise you He is not going to turn His back on us now. (I LOVE THAT LINE!! He's not gonna back away from us now---yes!!) When He says to the poor in spirit, “Come unto me,” He means He knows the way out and He knows the way up. He knows it because He has walked it. He knows the way because He is the way."
I share this article with you my sisters to help empower you to continually come unto Christ. I am doing my best. I enjoy learning how to do it myself. His love is so real for all of us. It truly is a custom cast that wraps around our fragile spirits and strengthens and protects us. Hugs!
Here's my article, Broken Things to Mend by Elder Jeffrey R. Holland:
http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&locale=0&sourceId=2e89e2270ed6c010VgnVCM1000004d82620a____&vgnextoid=2354fccf2b7db010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD
I was struck by this article because of the title, "broken things to mend". I was thinking about the image of a broken bone being mended or casted. When a bone is broken, we take such good care of it. The cast is a customized fit to help it heal. It's often a long process and sometimes requires therapy after but most broken bones are healed in a matter of weeks.
I think of my life and my spirit over the last few years. It felt broken, disconnected from Heavenly Father. I made the choice to see the Master Physician and He diagnosed me, examined me, sent nurses to be with me so I wasn't alone in the 'x-ray room' and then He casted me until I was healed. I know I kind of took the analogy a little far but I really think it works.
Elder Holland uses Christ's phrase "come unto me" repeatedly. I struggled just as the Apostles because I was so afraid. I love how Elder Holland teaches us about how to come unto Christ. What a powerful lesson I am just really coming to learn :
"reliance upon the merciful nature of God is at the very center of the gospel Christ taught. I testify that the Savior’s Atonement lifts from us not only the burden of our sins but also the burden of our disappointments and sorrows, our heartaches and our despair. 14 From the beginning, trust in such help was to give us both a reason and a way to improve, an incentive to lay down our burdens and take up our salvation. There can and will be plenty of difficulties in life. Nevertheless, the soul that comes unto Christ, who knows His voice and strives to do as He did, finds a strength, as the hymn says, “beyond [his] own.” 15 The Savior reminds us that He has “graven [us] upon the palms of [His] hands.” 16 Considering the incomprehensible cost of the Crucifixion and Atonement, I promise you He is not going to turn His back on us now. (I LOVE THAT LINE!! He's not gonna back away from us now---yes!!) When He says to the poor in spirit, “Come unto me,” He means He knows the way out and He knows the way up. He knows it because He has walked it. He knows the way because He is the way."
I share this article with you my sisters to help empower you to continually come unto Christ. I am doing my best. I enjoy learning how to do it myself. His love is so real for all of us. It truly is a custom cast that wraps around our fragile spirits and strengthens and protects us. Hugs!
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
Conversion
The Challenge to Become by Dallin H. Oaks
http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&locale=0&sourceId=f0b26169b62fe010VgnVCM100000176f620a____&vgnextoid=f318118dd536c010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD
This article was mentioned by one of the presenters at Time Out for Women that Robbin and I attended last weekend. When I read it, it really hit home for me. I really appreciated the part where he says that going through the motions is not the point, I find myself doing that a lot.
" It is not enough for anyone just to go through the motions. The commandments, ordinances, and covenants of the gospel are not a list of deposits required to be made in some heavenly account. The gospel of Jesus Christ is a plan that shows us how to become what our Heavenly Father desires us to become."
I so often forget that the point of this life is to become someone, someone Heavenly Father will endow with all He has....I get caught up thinking that this life is just one never-ending to-do list.
"The gospel of Jesus Christ is the plan by which we can become what children of God are supposed to become. This spotless and perfected state will result from a steady succession of covenants, ordinances, and actions, an accumulation of right choices, and from continuing repentance. “This life is the time for men to prepare to meet God” (Alma 34:32)."
I love that he says that our spotless and perfected state will result from a steady succession of covenants, ordinances, and actions...an accumulation of right choices and continuing repentance. This life really is a proccess, there are no one time big decisions that are total deal breakers...or at least very few...and even when we make those mistakes our salvation depends on what we continue to do, what we repeatedly do...it is a proccess and we have to continually make the decisions that save us, create us. I liked that thought...it's easier to move forward if I realize that the mistakes I made in the past are not the only opportunities to make decisions and the only chances I had to prove what kind of person I am.....I get to continue to do that as long as I live.
"Now is the time for each of us to work toward our personal conversion, toward becoming what our Heavenly Father desires us to become. As we do so, we should remember that our family relationships—even more than our Church callings—are the setting in which the most important part of that development can occur. The conversion we must achieve requires us to be a good husband and father or a good wife and mother. Being a successful Church leader is not enough. Exaltation is an eternal family experience, and it is our mortal family experiences that are best suited to prepare us for it."
He talks about the difference between having a testimony and being converted, and I found it really interesting that he points to the way we treat our families as an indication of whether we are really converted.
"Our needed conversions are often achieved more readily by suffering and adversity than by comfort and tranquillity" Don't we all know this part? I forget when I am suffering...and do a lot of why God? He is just trying to help me to become what He would have me be....and I just complain about being uncomfortable. Someday I'll learn. "Through the justice and mercy of a loving Father in Heaven, the refinement and sanctification possible through such experiences can help us achieve what God desires us to become."
I also liked what he says about Charity being a condition or a state of being, it is what we strive to become rather than an act. He says we are challenged not only to do what is right but to do it for the right reason....for the pure love of Christ.
Read the part about the parable of the vineyard. This part touched me because I have a sister for whom many tears have been shed and many prayers have been offered.
"This parable teaches us that we should never give up hope and loving associations with family members and friends whose fine qualities (see Moro. 7:5–14) evidence their progress toward what a loving Father would have them become. Similarly, the power of the Atonement and the principle of repentance show that we should never give up on loved ones who now seem to be making many wrong choices.
Instead of being judgmental about others, we should be concerned about ourselves. We must not give up hope. We must not stop striving. We are children of God, and it is possible for us to become what our Heavenly Father would have us become."
Sisters, thanks so much for sharing your thoughts and articles with me these last few weeks. I pray that we may hear His voice instead of the voice of the world, and may do things in His way instead of by the ways of the world.
http://lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?hideNav=1&locale=0&sourceId=f0b26169b62fe010VgnVCM100000176f620a____&vgnextoid=f318118dd536c010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD
This article was mentioned by one of the presenters at Time Out for Women that Robbin and I attended last weekend. When I read it, it really hit home for me. I really appreciated the part where he says that going through the motions is not the point, I find myself doing that a lot.
" It is not enough for anyone just to go through the motions. The commandments, ordinances, and covenants of the gospel are not a list of deposits required to be made in some heavenly account. The gospel of Jesus Christ is a plan that shows us how to become what our Heavenly Father desires us to become."
I so often forget that the point of this life is to become someone, someone Heavenly Father will endow with all He has....I get caught up thinking that this life is just one never-ending to-do list.
"The gospel of Jesus Christ is the plan by which we can become what children of God are supposed to become. This spotless and perfected state will result from a steady succession of covenants, ordinances, and actions, an accumulation of right choices, and from continuing repentance. “This life is the time for men to prepare to meet God” (Alma 34:32)."
I love that he says that our spotless and perfected state will result from a steady succession of covenants, ordinances, and actions...an accumulation of right choices and continuing repentance. This life really is a proccess, there are no one time big decisions that are total deal breakers...or at least very few...and even when we make those mistakes our salvation depends on what we continue to do, what we repeatedly do...it is a proccess and we have to continually make the decisions that save us, create us. I liked that thought...it's easier to move forward if I realize that the mistakes I made in the past are not the only opportunities to make decisions and the only chances I had to prove what kind of person I am.....I get to continue to do that as long as I live.
"Now is the time for each of us to work toward our personal conversion, toward becoming what our Heavenly Father desires us to become. As we do so, we should remember that our family relationships—even more than our Church callings—are the setting in which the most important part of that development can occur. The conversion we must achieve requires us to be a good husband and father or a good wife and mother. Being a successful Church leader is not enough. Exaltation is an eternal family experience, and it is our mortal family experiences that are best suited to prepare us for it."
He talks about the difference between having a testimony and being converted, and I found it really interesting that he points to the way we treat our families as an indication of whether we are really converted.
"Our needed conversions are often achieved more readily by suffering and adversity than by comfort and tranquillity" Don't we all know this part? I forget when I am suffering...and do a lot of why God? He is just trying to help me to become what He would have me be....and I just complain about being uncomfortable. Someday I'll learn. "Through the justice and mercy of a loving Father in Heaven, the refinement and sanctification possible through such experiences can help us achieve what God desires us to become."
I also liked what he says about Charity being a condition or a state of being, it is what we strive to become rather than an act. He says we are challenged not only to do what is right but to do it for the right reason....for the pure love of Christ.
Read the part about the parable of the vineyard. This part touched me because I have a sister for whom many tears have been shed and many prayers have been offered.
"This parable teaches us that we should never give up hope and loving associations with family members and friends whose fine qualities (see Moro. 7:5–14) evidence their progress toward what a loving Father would have them become. Similarly, the power of the Atonement and the principle of repentance show that we should never give up on loved ones who now seem to be making many wrong choices.
Instead of being judgmental about others, we should be concerned about ourselves. We must not give up hope. We must not stop striving. We are children of God, and it is possible for us to become what our Heavenly Father would have us become."
Sisters, thanks so much for sharing your thoughts and articles with me these last few weeks. I pray that we may hear His voice instead of the voice of the world, and may do things in His way instead of by the ways of the world.
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